Saturday, December 31, 2011

As We Count Down...

As we count down this last hour of 2011 I can't help but to think that it's going to be hard to top. It's been a crazy ride this year.

We started out the year celebrating with friends, expecting a baby girl, celebrating one last New Year's Eve as just the two of us.

April brought us the joy of becoming parents. An amazing, obviously life-altering experience. I'm not sure we even knew we could love someone as much as we do our sweet Rosalie. Seeing Mike hold her for the first time, bathe her, feed her and all the playtime they have together makes me wonder why he was so nervous in the first place! He's such an amazing, devoted, FUN father. I think his favorite part of Rosalie's life is giving her a bath...or as he says "daddy-baby fun time". He's the sweetest daddy ever.  He was gone quite a bit this summer and never fails to come home and jump right back into everyday life which I'm extremely grateful for.

Rosalie grows, learns and explores more everyday. She's such a happy baby, I'm not sure what will happen if our future babies are fussy! I can't wait to see her first tooth (yes, she's 8 months old with no teeth!), see her realllly crawl (hey, it's hard work slipping and sliding on these hardwood floors!), pull up and walk. I can't wait for her to FINALLY meet her loving family at home. She's blessed to have many aunts and uncles. Our family may not consist solely of blood relatives but it's so strong! We're lucky to have amazing friends that are always there to support, love and miss us just as much as we miss them.

April 26, 2011

December 2011


We end this year with an exciting announcement! We found out yesterday that we're expecting again! I'm a horrible secret keeper with my own news when I'm SO excited to share it! We're due sometime in September so it's still very early. We ask that our loving friends and family pray for a healthy pregnancy, delivery and healthy pregnancy. 

Happy New Year! Have a fantastic 2012!!

Monday, December 26, 2011

Countdown- 76 days

Rosalie had such an awesome first Christmas. She was blessed by family and friends with so much generosity. She definitely appreciates the presenst...even if she'd rather eat the wrapping paper. ;)

1st Tank Christmas Party


Now that Christmas has come and gone, it's time to begin the countdown to coming HOME! We'll arrive in Indianapolis sometime around March 12th. We're headed to Fort Lewis, Washington next and are SO excited about it. I know that i'm getting incredibly anxious for the move, nervous as well. It's going to be an expensive trip from Buffalo, NY to Washington! Good thing we aren't forking out for it.

With the help of an awesome aunt and uncle we're planning an early birthday party for Miss Rosalie. It'll be about 6 weeks early but we can't help ourselves! We can't wait for everyone to meet our sweet girl.

Rosalie now sits up, scoots all over, gets on her hands and knees and babbles "da-da" nonstop. She's one of the happiest babies i've ever met. She's independent and loves to feed herself. She has the best belly laugh and toothless smile.


Her favorite thing to do right now is play in Chopper's kennel. She LOVES to pull his hair, poor guy!

She'll eat any type of food you put in front of her including chicken wings! She didn't hate it but she didn't cry. That's a good sign, right?


Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Some Ins and Outs...

Okay, in my previous post I discussed the different types of cloth diapers. I want you to know that there are FAR more options than I discussed but these are the ones I've used and have worked for me. I'll try and see if some of my Cloth Diapering friends will write a review of the ones they use for me to put on my blog.

There are a few things to keep in mind with cloth diapering. They can be addicting. No, seriously, they can. I know that it sounds batty but it's so true! The pretty prints, finding the right ones, the pretty prints, new ones coming out, pretty prints, I think you get the idea. They're pretty.

You cannot use regular diaper cream with them. Something in them, i believe mineral oil, causes them to not be absorbant and actually repel the fluid. You can use coconut oil and cloth diaper safe creams. You can google them but the one i've been using is CJs Butter.

This is my "must-have" list. Note that all of these aren't necessary but just make things easier.
Below are the wetbags, they wouldn't go in the other spot.

  1.  2 "wetbags"- you'll want a large one for long trips and a smaller one for short trips. It's also nice to have them extra when the other is dirty or in the wash. I have a Planetwise wet-dry bag. This one has a pocket for the dry, clean diapers and a wet PUL lined inner piece for the wet/dirty ones. These are also great for swimsuits! Just don't put the swimsuit in at the same time as a dirty diaper...yuck.     
  2. Trash can with a lid and a pail liner. A pail liner is similar to a wetbag but just lines the pail. I like the planet wise pail liner because of the elastic around the top. It's nice to have two but it isn't necessary. you want a can with a lid to keep the stinky in.
  3. If you're choosing the prefolds with covers you'll want some "snappis". Snappis replace the diaper pins and to me seem easier to use. 
  4. You'll want to have about 24 or so diapers when they're a newborn and a few less as they get older because you wont have quite as many diaper changes when they're older. You don't want to be washing diapers every day, it's best to wash every other day. it makes the diapers last longer.
  5. If you want to save more money, use cloth wipes and a wipe solution. A simple solution in a spray bottle is tea tree oil (just a couple drops), baby shampoo and baby oil. I prefer cloth wipes at home because they're so much better at getting the poop off. I made my own out of receiving blankets.
  6. Cloth diaper safe laundry detergent. You can go as common as All Free and Clear Small and Mighty or have to order it like Charlies or Rockin' Green. Sometimes you can find those in cloth diaper stores if they're close to you.
  7. Fleece or silk liners. These are nice for poopy diapers but I dont have enough to use with every diaper so i only use it on occassion. They're nice for the times where you're given "normal" diaper cream because you can use them as a barrier.
  8. disposable diaper liners- I don't have any of these but they're flushable!
Snappi on a prefold

To wash-
  • Cold rinse
  • Hot wash with soap and a cold rinse
  • another cold rinse to get all the soap out
To strip- (you only do this if they're repelling or stinky)
  • Cold rinse
  • hot wash with blue dawn dish soap
  • cold rinse



Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Cheap or Environmental friendly......Or both?

Throughout my pregnancy I was researching...and researching.....and researching...and...well, you get the idea. I researched everything from foods that were safe to eat while pregnant to exercises you can do while pregnant to what clothes run the truest to size. FYI none of the clothes are true to size in my opinion. That's not the point of this post though.

 As mothers we tend to research everything. We want to give our children the best possible start to life. We also generally try to find the most practical and affordable things for our family, or at least ways to spend money on more fun things and still give our babies exactly what they need. We knew going into parenthood that babies are by nature expensive. Parents buy food, clothing, toys, books, etc. One of the most expensive items that i've found outside of food is diapers. Diapers are insanely expensive to me for what they are. Poop catchers. We did a lot of thinking and had thought about cloth diapering but decided against it for the time being because we were planning on going home to visit and didn't want to be putting poop in other people's washers...silly now that we think about it.

 When mike was away at training starting early August, we took the plunge. We used up the rest of the disposables that we had and made the commitment to cloth diapering. It IS a commitment and one that is well worth it. Rosalie hasn't worn a disposable diaper since August 9th and darn it, I'm pretty excited about it!

 There are SO many ways to cloth diaper, they aren't your grandma's style anymore! They have fun prints, diapers that go from birth to potty training, nifty little things that replace diaper pins, the list goes on. We've used several types so far and are still working out which ones we like best. I feel like they all have their time and place, though.

 We started with prefolds and covers. This is one of the cheapest ways to go. You can go from birth to potty training for around $100 if you shop around. My favorite covers right now are Flip or Thirsties Duo Wraps. They're both about $13 each. Flip come in "one-size" meaning they can be worn starting at around 8lb and go to 35 I believe. The thirsties come "sized" and come in sizes one and two. Size one goes up to around 15lb and then size two goes to 35-40 or so. (all numbers are guesses right now, I'm too sleepy to look them up ;D) Prefolds come in three sizes: Infant, Premium and Toddler. You can usually find them for between $1 (used from a diaper service and good quality) and up to $10 for hemp, organic or bamboo. I use the one dollar ones. You'll need 4 covers or so I would say. You don't change the cover with every diaper change unless it's soiled by poop. You can wipe off the pee with a baby wipe or rinse it and let it dry. THese are nice as well because they aren't bulky like other diapers. These are also very quick to dry. You can use a "snappi", diaper pins or trifold a prefold with a snug cover.


(Top left is the flip onesize cover, top right is the econobums one size cover and the bottom is a thirsties size 1)


 


Pocket diapers are nice as well. They dry quickly because they have an "insert" that is usually microfiber, hemp or bamboo that can be taken out. These need to be changed with every diaper change, they aren't reusable like covers. They come in sized and one size. The sized are generally the most bulky diaper I've found but the most versatile since they go from birth to potty training and a better bang for your buck. There are TONS of different brands! Tons and tons and tons. There are WAHM (work at home mom), commercial, chinese made, etc. I have used Fuzzibunz, Bumgenius, Justsimplybaby and I have some Alvababy on the way.


  Fuzzibunz- These are one of the trimmest i've used. They're one size but they don't snap down like the others. They're adjustable in the legs and waste with elastic. They're a bit spendy as most pocket diapers are but they seem to be working well for us right now. I've only had these a week or so but we haven't had a leak even with wearing it for 12+ hours at nighttime. I double stuff with two inserts to keep them absorbant enough for night time, I do this with all my pocket diapers.





Bumgenius- many people LOVE bumgenius. I do like some of their products but the pockets aren't that much better than the cheaper ones i have though they do have some super cute prints in the artist series. With these you snap down the rise to adjust to the baby's size. They're about $20 or so a piece though i've seen them cheaper




 




  JustSimplyBaby These diapers are relatively inexpensive at around $12 a diaper. They also have some that are a minky outside as opposed to the traditional PUL. Personally, i have found that the minky leaks a lot more than the PUL. I'm not quite sure why except maybe the wetness is wicking more to the minky. I do like these diapers though for the price and they have really good sales and ship free to military.


  Alvababy- they appear to be JUST like the JSB but I haven't gotten them yet so i'll have to do an update when I do.


There are also All-in-One diapers. These do not require a pocket and come in different sizes, they aren't usually all one size. They DO have some that are but you have to look for
them. I know that Bumgenius has them but I  tried them out to know how good they are. I have a sized ones from bumgenius and I LOVE them. They're more spendy though and if you're cloth diapering for budgetary reasons this isn't the way to go. I happened to get mine off the Cloth Diaper Swap board on BabyCenter. LOVE that board! Seriously, check it out! These are fantastic, i just wish they were cheaper.




 I'm sure i'm missing some type but I'll fill in more if i do :) See next post for the "how-to"!

Monday, July 25, 2011

Hello Parenthood

Apparently it's been 4 months since i've posted. Oopsie. Well, clearly all of you know by now that we had our little Rosalie. Well, maybe I should start by saying she wasn't exactly little. Being 10 days overdue put her at 9lb 1oz and 19.5inches long. She's the light of our life. All of our friends that were due around the same time have gorgeous, healthy little babies as well. We've been so blessed with her! She's a great eater, so great in fact that she was 15lbs at 10 weeks! She sleeps very well and is starting to roll over and grab at toys. Boy, is she a talker! We're going to have some high phone bills with this one!

Rosalie loves looking at the doggies and laughs when they lick her toes. They're very protective of her and love to play and stare at her. We have been staying pretty busy. When she was 10 days old Mike left for the field and was gone for 5 weeks. She was so happy to have him come home. She definitely knows who her daddy is and has him wrapped around those little fingers of hers! We can't wait to bring her home and show her off. She's going to be the center of attention for a bit, I think :D

Mike is putting in an application packet for Officer Candidacy School. If he gets in, which he should, we'll be heading to Ft. Benning in the spring. It's so funny to say that Korea has become our new "normal". It's going to be a culture shock to go home!

Mike also gets promoted to Sargeant on the first of August. He's such a great guy, he totally deserves it!

Don't want to keep this going too much so i'll update more later!

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Less Than 6 weeks!!

Well, our baby girl will be here in about six weeks or so! I am SO excited! I can't wait to meet her. It's going to be so awesome and crazy all in one. I think Mike is pretty nervous about it seeing as he's never really been around babies. I'm nervous too but more for the time that he'll be in the field. He'll be leaving a few weeks after her due date and gone for a month or so. We aren't sure on dates (even if we were, I wouldn't post them here! hehe) or length but we know he's going to get to shoot his tank and qualify and get his tanker boots that he's wanted since he joined the Army. It's sort of a right of passage for tankers.

My doula, Ms. Tonya, has been such a big help this pregnancy and I'm sure she'll be a great help with Labor and Delivery as well. I'm so glad that we chose to hire a doula. I really hope that it helps me to get the birth that I want. i'd like to go as naturally as possible. I don't want an induction or epidural or a c-section, obviously. I'm fine with getting an IV and I'd like to be able to be up and moving and not tied down to the bed. We'll see how this all works out. Obviously if something is happening to me or the baby then we'll change that plan but this is how I'm hoping it will go. Since I've had a few "labor signs" Tonya has asked that I not do any sweeping/mopping, laundry changing, long dog walking, etc until I hit 36 weeks. 36 weeks is a big deal here in Korea. If you you go into active labor before 36 weeks then you have to deliver at a Korean hospital. I've been to one for an ultrasound and it isn't bad but I'd much prefer to have good communication and better care at an Army hospital. We'll see what happens. I've only got a little over a week until then so we should definitely make it!

Mike was in and out of the field for pretty much all of February and I'm happy to have him back now!!

Monday, January 3, 2011

Today, I'm annoyed

I woke up this morning and one of the first things I thought about was how annoying people can be when it comes to the English language. I mean, really, how hard is it to type properly? I'm well aware that typing mistakes happen and that's not what I'm referring to. I'm talking about those people that constantly use two i's in every word, use a 3 insead of an 'e' and 'q' instead of a 'g'. Also, 2 in place of to or too. 2 is a NUMBER not to be used to replaced non-number words.

Sentences like "My doq is 2 k3wl and ii'm so 3xciit3d to qo hom3 and play wiith hiim" really bug me!

Oh and "a lot" is two words, not one. (Though, admittedly, I'm guilty)